I need boy advice? He played me like a foool!?

Okay, so I promised myself I wouldn't like another boy or atleast date another boy until I got into university, but its my last year of high school. I know that I don't have time to have a boyfriend all the time right now because I have so much going on in my life, but when I met this boy through my friend I ended up keeping in contact with him. He lives about 5 hours away from me, and distance sounded like a good thing at the time, so I agreed to go out with him. He was feeding me all this stuff telling me how he loves me and how no other girl could replace me, but at the same time telling me that he would go out at night and i would just ask him well did you have a good night? and he would respond well yes i did but its not something i would tell you about i might get introuble ;) Right then I felt a bit disrespected yet I continued to stay by his side, I have never really been the jealous or obsessive type. One day he ims me and we start talking but he was acting really weird, he finally tells me that he doesnt really like me anymore, so i said do yuo wanna be with me he tells me that he needs to think about it, and then he started saying rude nasty ****. He starts flirting with other girls immediatly and he completely played me like a fool with another girl. ;( I don't understand how he could do this and thne the next day act completely normal about it a few days later and start saying i miss you and old ****..but he still says i dont want to be with you or i cant decide. How do I make him want me, but really want me not just wanna play me like a fool? I just wish he could feel what I felt, cause it wasn't all jokes to me. I guess I let down my guard to the wrong person, any advice?